trying to be a good wife

happy friday guys.....

we spent our weekend in terengganu this time. he's oncall today. so as usual, i will be bored and alone at home. 

honestly, i didnt cook much since i was married to him. usually once or twice in a month. lucky enough to get trice.

why??

because most of the time we stayed in my parents' house. and we always run out of 'fuel' once we came back from work (exhausted). and luckily he is a very loving husband, prefer to get food outside than asking his exhausted wife to cook. *twink twink

but some did told me about the important of 'air tangan isteri' in every marriage. so, i stick to that. usually, i'll cook if he need to be oncall during weekend. because, if not, we will go back to kuantan and spend our weekend there.

so today, my first attempt in making nasi ayam. luckily he likes it. pass!!

ade rupe nasi ayam kan???

p/s: i promise to u to keep improving my cooking skill sayang. it might take some times, so do support me k.

the best birthday gift ever

 

I got a surprise last few night. well never expected about it.

 

it was MacBook pro retina display!!!!!!! omg.... love you so much dear. well for ur info, it was a backdated birthday gift (i am a virgo). but who cares right? haha

 

 

a struggling middle class doctor

currently, I am working as an in-charge mo at my current workplace. so, I will handling a lot of administration work than seeing the patient. one of them is to check and sign the monthly claimed from my staffs.

so last week, a few of them hand me the claim. and in every claim, u need to attach the pay slip. the current pay slip.

I am a doctor with income 4k-5k per month (government servant). with a car and a house and so on to be paid every month. and overall, I just can save about 500-1k per month (if I am lucky enough).

gone through their pay slip, gave me a chills. some of them got the income less than 1K per month, after minus the home loan and tax. omg, how they are going to survive with rm900 per month. school kids need at least rm1 per day. to move around, they need a car/motocycle and at the same time, they need to pay for the fuel, electricity, water supply and mobile phone bills.

not to mention here, the daily cost for food....

currently, me and my husband planned to buy a house in my hometown. it was a semi d double storey house. the cost.....rm440k. we already put the downpayment 30k for that house. the lawyer already called us to arrange the time for us to sign the agreement. bank Negara already restrict the duration for  home loan for only 35 years. with our current income, we need to do combined loan to cover for that value after counting all our debt (cars and personal loan).

we are doctor, married with no kid, and we are struggling financially to have a better life.

just wondering, how much the rm900 can do for a family.....

sometimes..

sometimes....

someone sent me this and i just simply cried when i read it.

yes, i think i am having that kind of situation.

someone, somewhere, somehow is not ready to let me go....

congratulation hyrene and rudy

They are faisal's friends. they came to our wedding a year ago. so this year is our turn to attend their wedding. and both of them just bang our eyes. so hensem and gorgeous.

may both of you live happily ever after. have a blissful married life k!

happy anniversary sayang

last 14th of september,

we celebrated our first anniversary as husband and wife. a year flies so fast. after all, i am so grateful to be called as his wife. at least i got a husband that know how to change the light bulb, know how to clean out the house area, a husband that help me when i want to 'sidai' my kain outside the house and a husband that know how to clean the dirty plates at the kitchen.

Allah just gave me a beautiful husband that i think complete most of all aspect in my life. thank you Allah!

to Mr President, happy anniversary sayang...

redang again!!!

6-7/9/2013

we went to redang again. for the second time in this year. for this trip, we involved in surgical dept family day.

as usual, redang gave us the best view ever. and that 2 days stay were awesome. involved in snorkeling, some telematch and lucky draw.

malacca again!! 29-30/8/2013

malacca again guys!!!! 

yes....we love malacca. so much!! i think since married, we've been in malacca about 3-4 times. and we got so many reason to fall in love with malacca. it is a small state with a beautiful scenary and peoples. 

well mr husband, can i said it as a birthday surprise???

i turned 27 on last 30th of august. and we celebrate it in malacca. well actually, i never had a thought about going to malacca since my husband asked me to pack my stuff and back to kuantan ( i was in KL for 5 days before to attend a course)

after leaving his aunty's house in nilai, he drove the car heading to malacca. well it was a surprise until we were 'pening' looking for hotel. not a very well prepared surprise actually. and finally, we choose to stay at holiday inn malacca. it was in the center of bandar malacca, facing toward the sea. overall, i was very satisfied with the hotel services. room were clean, view was beautiful and the staffs were friendly.

our routine, as usual, we had our dinner at restoran pak putra (chicken tandori were superbb). driving around the town, sat of for a while at reverside and then back to hotel room. at 12 midnight, we light the candle on the cake, and surprisingly he sang the happy birthday song, complete. it was enough for me. having a husband that really care about me. thank you sayang.

that was my celebration for my 27. and it was the best birthday ever!!!

actually i was looking for cheaper hotel to stay. and we ended up choosing one 2 star hotel at chinatown. i asked him to go and asked for a room. and then he said " book la holiday inn la sayang, i x sampai hati nak biar u stay hotel macam ni". 

at that moment....

i fall in love again. to the same guy that won my first love, and to the same guy that i am married with. 

p/s: i love you